Ok, I’m recently divorced and have started dating again. However, I am a diabetic and I am currently under a bit of stress due to an ongoing divorce battle with my ex-wife, and due to this stress and my diabetes I am showing some signs of erectile dysfunction. I have started dating around and am currently sleeping with someone on a regular basis. However, I am not all that close to her emotionally yet. But anyways, every time I feel we are having a good night and could possibly get intimate, I’ll pop a cialis in my mouth. Generally, I’ve been able to do it discreetly, but once in a while it will be a difficult situation due to time and privacy (since i need about 30mins for it to kick in, and privacy to take the pill). So she has seen me once or twice popping a pill in my mouth when we are together (like if we are driving in the car and going back to her place to get intimate, I’ll have to take it in the car). I know she’s wondering what I’m taking but I don’t think she knows it has to do with sex since I take it about 30 minutes to an hour before we get intimate.

Anyways, I am not going to tell her I am taking cialis for erectile dysfunction for three reasons. One, that alone is extremely embarrassing for any man to admit even to himself. And two, I don’t know her well enough and don’t feel comfortable on that level quite yet, we may even break up after a few more months and then that will be one woman too many that know about my issue. If I end up getting extremely close to her, I will probably tell her. Third, I don’t want her thinking I am not attracted to her since I think she is GORGEOUS and has a great personality. Attraction is not the issue, the issue is with my body and stress, so I don’t want her feeling bad about it.

So, can anyone think of a good lie so I can tell her why I have to take a pill sometimes in front of her, especially when we are having nights where we are really getting along well and getting intimate? Maybe someone in the health field can name a medication I could be taking that would sound legitimate. Especially a medication that someone may have to take prior to having sex. I appreciate any responses:)
Wow Vehement, you are so rude. You either didn’t read my whole passage and question, or you have trouble understanding the privacy of this issue in men. Chill out

Answer:

You could claim its a vitamin supplement. Could claim you have a back problem and you take the pill as a minor painkiller which gives you an excuse to use before sex as you could claim its difficult and tell her it takes like 30min to kick in which is perfect. Could say you have a deficiency in something and the doctor prescribed it to you.